Bereavement

The loss of a baby at any stage during pregnancy or after birth is devastating to a family. Providing an empathetic, sensitive and caring environment to support couples and their families following a pregnancy loss is now an integral part of maternity services. The National Maternity Hospital realises the importance of supporting parents and their families when they experience the loss of their baby. If you have experienced bereavement, the Clinical Midwife Specialist, Chaplain and clinical staff work closely together as part of a multi-disciplinary team.

Pregnancy After Loss

 

 

 

 

 

Bereavement Clinics

‘Why did this happen?’ and ‘Will this happen again?’ Are two questions every bereaved parent asks following a pregnancy loss.

The National Maternity Hospital recognises that follow up care is integral to the provision of compassionate bereavement care. The hospital has systems in place to ensure that follow up consultations with an obstetrician, paediatrician/ neonatologist and  bereavement midwife specialist will be provided in a suitable space, separate to mothers and babies which is conducive to discussion and counselling.

There are three specialised consultant led bereavement clinics providing follow up care for couples who have experienced pregnancy loss through miscarriage and stillbirth. Follow up with a consultant neonatologist is arranged on an individual basis for parents whose baby has died in the neonatal period. These clinics provide an opportunity for couples to be counselled, in a timely manner, in relation to results of medical investigations carried out following the pregnancy loss. The provision of medical certificates in relation to stillbirth and neonatal death are completed, where relevant and given to parents at this time so that they can register their baby’s birth/ death.

The bereavement clinics are supported by two consultant pathologists who provide valuable information through post mortem and placental examination.  Further expertise is provided by a Consultant Geneticist who meets with bereaved parents in cases where a genetic assessment is required.

As well as the provision of medical results, the clinics provide an opportunity to ascertain how parents are coping with their grief and to offer ongoing support to families based on individual need.

Early Pregnancy Loss Support Group

Our support group will held 'virutally' via webex on the second Tuesday of each month (see dates below)

From 1800-1930

Places are limited and need to be booked in advance.

To book a place email Brenda on bereavement@nmh.ie

Who is invited to attend?

We welcome any one who has experienced loss through ectopic pregnancy, molar pregnancy or first trimester miscarriage .This group is open to women/ partners who have attended the National Maternity Hospital and is facilitated by a Midwife Specialist in Bereavement & Loss .

What is the purpose of the Support Group?

The isolation associated with early pregnancy loss can be overwhelming. The National Maternity Hospital’s Early Pregnancy Support Group affords women and their partners a safe and confidential space to normalise their feelings and have their  grief and loss validated. For some, there is a desperate need to talk to others who have experienced an early loss for others, comfort is gained from listening. It provides an opportunity to meet others who have experienced a similar type of loss and to share thoughts and feelings in a safe, confidential and supportive environment.

When should I attend?

There is no right or wrong time to attend the NMH Early Pregnancy Loss support Group. Some of you may have experienced a loss recently while others may have had a loss some time ago. We understand that it can take a lot of courage to attend a support Group. You are welcome to bring a supportive friend/ family member.  We do recommend however, that you allow yourself some time to process the loss before attending a meeting.

Dates for Support group

From 1800-1930

15th of June

No group in July or August

 

11th of January 2022

8th of February 2022

8th of March 2022

 

 

Support services

The Bereavement Midwives provide the following support services

For further information click here

  • Organise follow up care at the appropriate clinic where you will be seen by a senior Doctor/Consultant and the Clinical Midwife Specialist.
  • Support for parents following any form of pregnancy loss or the death of a baby.
  • Advise and support regarding children's grief.
  • Facilitate the planning of the medical investigations and clinic appointments for women experiencing three consecutive miscarriages.
  • Practical & emotional support for families during pregnancy when a life limiting condition has been diagnosed.
  • Support for families during pregnancy after loss
  • Phone support
  • Early pregnancy loss support group

To contact the Bereavement midwives phone 01-6373225 or email bereavement@nmh.ie

 

Annual Remembrance Service

This service is held annually for the parents & families of babies who have died

Sadly due to Covid-19 restrictions, we are unable to hold our Annual Remembrance Service this year.

On Sunday, 3rd October at 3pm we will light candles in memory of all babies and invite you to join us in lighting a candle in memory of your baby.

Sending you our love and light, from all at The National Maternity Hospital. 

Book of Remembrance

The Book of Remembrance

 ..…every life that ever forms or ever comes to be touches the world in some small way for all eternity.....

Parents are invited to have their babies’ names entered in this book which is on view daily in the Hospital Oratory. Forms can be downloaded here and returned to the chaplain by email - chaplainber@nmh.ie

The Bereavement Symbol

The National Maternity Hospital has introduced the bereavement symbol which was developed by the Hospice Friendly Hospitals Programme. The symbol is inspired by ancient Irish history and is not associated with any one religious or denomination.
The sign will be placed outside the room as the aim is to make all staff aware that sensitivity is required, to create a quiet atmosphere and to minimise any unnecessary disturbance for a family who have experienced a bereavement.

Other useful websites

Support groups

http://www.feileacain.ie/

http://www.firstlight.ie

https://alittlelifetime.ie/

https://onedaymore.ie/

http://miscarraige.ie

https://anamcara.ie/

https://lmcsupport.ie 

Information regarding children and grief

http://www.childhoodbereavement.ie/